婚前想想-我有受到束缚的感觉吗(3)

 婚前想想

 

Am I feeling trapped?

 

我有受到束缚的感觉吗？

 

Do you really want to be in this relationship the majority of the time or do you find yourself wishing for a wayout? Do you stay because you've invested time or are you really invested inyour mate?

 

绝大多数时候你都愿意身处这段感情中吗，还是说你发现自己希望能够找条出路？你继续这段感情是否因为你觉得自己投入了时间，然而你真的在你伴侣身上投入过吗？

 

What am I doing to hold us back?

 

我要做什么来维持关系？

 

Maybe you could be more attentive¹, morethoughtful, quicker to let things go, or the first to bring up going tocounseling. Whatever it is, take this as your sign to step up.

 

也许你可以更细致，更周到，更快地让事情过去，或者首次想到去咨询，不管如何，将这作为对你的指示去使其实现。

 

Is this relationship balanced?

 

这段感情平衡吗？

 

Do you feel you're both on the same pagein terms of compromise, care, support and sacrifice? Or is one of you doingmost of the giving while the other just sits with their hand out?

 

你觉得你们在妥协，关心，支持和牺牲等方面都意见一致吗？还是说你们当中某个人一直在付出而另一个人无动于衷？

1 attentive   

adj.注意的，专心的；关心(别人)的，殷勤的

参考例句：

• She was very attentive to her guests.她对客人招待得十分周到。
• The speaker likes to have an attentive audience.演讲者喜欢注意力集中的听众。