婚前想想-我为什么要有这段感情(4)

 婚前想想

 

Can we have fun together?

 

我们可以玩到一起吗？

 

Have you ever seen two people sit acrossfrom one another in silence at brunch¹ as though they are being forced to walkthrough their day together? Not. fun.

 

你可曾见过两个人在早午餐时默默地坐在一起，仿佛他们是被迫待在一起度过一天的时间？没意思。

 

Can we have fun apart?

 

我们能玩得开心吗？

 

Co-dependency ain't cute, y'all.

 

你们的互相依赖并不明智。

 

Why am I in this relationship?

 

我为什么要有这段感情？

 

Is it because you respect, love, trust,and value the person you are with? Or because you're afraid of being alone,worried about finances², or have built a life you’re scared to leave?

 

是因为你尊重、爱、信任和珍惜你的另一半吗？还是因为你害怕孤单，经济拮据，或者害怕失去你现有的生活？

 

Where is this going?

 

感情最终会怎样？

 

Living in the "now" is great,but eventually the partnership³ will need a plan or someone will begin to feelanxious.

 

活在当下是很棒的一件事，但是感情最终需要有个方向，否则有人会开始感到焦虑。

1 brunch   

n.早午餐

参考例句：

• They eat much the same thing for brunch every day.每天早午餐他们总是吃同样的东西。
• What did you have for your brunch?你早午饭都吃些什么？

2 finances   

n.(pl.)财源，资产

参考例句：

• I need a professional to sort out my finances. 我需要专业人士为我管理财务。
• The company's finances are looking a bIt'shaky. 这个公司的财政情况看来有点不稳定。

3 partnership   

n.合作关系，伙伴关系

参考例句：

• The company has gone into partnership with Swiss Bank Corporation.这家公司已经和瑞士银行公司建立合作关系。
• Martin has taken him into general partnership in his company.马丁已让他成为公司的普通合伙人。