双语有声阅读：女人要什么What do women want

 女人希望男人真诚。不要讲你是怎么对待前女友的，她不会因此觉得你明智、忠诚、可靠。这并不是要对她撒谎，别说谎，别这么对待你的女人。一旦撒谎，她不会觉得你比前男友好，这就好像，你也希望自己是她爱过的唯一男人。真诚也是女人想要的。

 

One reason why understanding a woman isn’t such an easy thing is because the way women process thoughts and emotions is drastically¹ different than their male counterparts². Studies indicate women use emotion to processes thought as their bases for decision-making thirty percent more than men do. Add such, women are also known for being more intuitive than men. This is not exactly true as men use intuition³ in different ways and have different ways of communicating. Nevertheless, Men tend to bond to share activities, whereas⁴ women tend to bond to share thoughts and feelings.

 

So what do a woman really want to the man? Men can get what they want from women much more frequently when they approach the women with a few simple yet affective.

 

1. woman wants a man to be confident. Confidence is the No. 1 quality a woman look for. Don’t be windy. Don’t apologize for everything. Be real. be you.

 

2. woman goes nuts over a man who will go the extra mile. For example, he opens a door for her; he walks in the right side of the street and helps her to stop. I am talking about being a gentleman. If she is cold, offer her your jacket. If she is in trouble, protect her. If there is a danger, pull your arm around her. Be a real man.

 

3. A sense of humor. Woman loves a man who can make her laugh. If you are dull, you are boring. If you make a woman laugh, you are half way home. Take a chance, be real but be funny.

 

4. Woman wants a man to listen and not necessarily give advice. Woman generally likes to complain about the problems. You need to understand that a woman needs to vent⁵. Allow her this and she’ll allow you in, not say aha while she is talking. Be true to interested in what she is saying without worrying about what you are going to say next. Watch what happens.

 

5. Women want to be treated as they are the sexiest women on the planet, and that no other woman can compare. Talking about your ex-girlfriends is not going to score big points with your new woman, treating her like she is the only one will make her smile for quite a while.

 

6. Woman wants to know you will be faithful. Don’t tell a woman how you treated on your ex, it wouldn’t make her think you are wise, loyalty⁶ or trustfully. I’m not saying to lie to her, just don’t go there, don’t treat on your woman. She will not think you are a better man for doing this, just like you want to think you are the only man she has ever loved one. That’s the thing she wants, too.

 

女人究竟想要什么

 

女人心难懂，其一是她们的思维和情感模式与男人不同。研究表明，女人做决定靠的是情感，其人群比例比男人多30%。另外，人们通常认为女人的直觉比男人要敏锐。事实上并不尽然，男人的直觉在很多情况下也很准确，他们用各种方式来沟通。但是，男人喜欢谈论行动，而女人喜欢分享各种想法和感觉。

 

女人究竟希望从男人那里得到什么呢？下面的办法很简单，却充满柔情蜜意，男人们学学吧，你就可以轻易地征服女人心。

 

1.女人希望男人自信，这是女人希望男人具有的最重要品质。别浮夸，别动不动就道歉，展示真我，做你自己。

 

女人喜欢付出多的男人。比如说，帮他开门，大街上走在她右边，及时拉住她。我这是在教你温柔体贴。她冷了，就递上你的外套。她遇到麻烦，你就要保护她。她遇到危险，就抱住她。做个真男人吧！

 

3. 女人希望男人有幽默感。女人喜欢能让自己大笑的男人。乏味的男人就很无趣了。能让女人大笑，你就成功了一半。试试吧，真诚点，但要幽默。

 

4. 女人希望男人能够倾听自己，你不必非要为她出谋划策。女人都喜欢牢骚抱怨，你得明白，她们需要发泄自己。容忍她们的抱怨，她们就会接纳你，女人讲话时，不要以“啊哈”回应。对她说的话表现出有诚意的感兴趣，不必担心自己要如何回应。看看下面会发生什么吧！女人们喜欢男人把自己当成世界上最性感的女人，绝妙无双。告诉你的现任女友，前女友跟她根本没法比，把她当作唯一值得取悦的人。

 

6. 女人希望男人真诚。不要讲你是怎么对待前女友的，她不会因此觉得你明智、忠诚、可靠。这并不是要对她撒谎，别说谎，别这么对待你的女人。一旦撒谎，她不会觉得你比前男友好，这就好像，你也希望自己是她爱过的唯一男人。真诚也是女人想要的。

1 drastically   

ad.极端地，严厉地

参考例句：

• Within a year the party had drastically overhauled its structure. 一年内这个政党已大刀阔斧地整顿了结构。
• Next year's budget will have to be drastically pruned. 下一年度的预算将大幅度削减。

2 counterparts   

与对方地位相当的人，与另一方作用相当的物( counterpart的名词复数 )； 同仁

参考例句：

• Deep-sea valleys are the counterparts of the mountain chains. 深海里的峡谷相当于陆地上的山脉。
• Many states have enacted their own counterparts to RCRA and CERCLA. 许多州都已经针对《资源保护和恢复法》和《综合性环境反应、赔偿与责任法案》制定了他们各自的实施细则。 来自英汉非文学 - 环境法 - 环境法

3 intuition   

n.直觉，直观，凭直觉而知的事物

参考例句：

• I had an intuition that I would find you.我有一种直觉，我能找到你们。
• He knew this thing by intuition.他凭直觉了解这件事。

4 whereas   

conj.而，却，反之

参考例句：

• They want a house,whereas we would rather live in a flat.他们想要一座房子，而我们宁愿住在一套房间里。
• Some praise him,whereas others condemn him.有些人赞扬他，而有些人谴责他。

5 vent   

n.通风口，排放口；开衩；vt.表达，发泄

参考例句：

• He gave vent to his anger by swearing loudly.他高声咒骂以发泄他的愤怒。
• When the vent became plugged,the engine would stop.当通风口被堵塞时，发动机就会停转。

6 loyalty   

n.忠诚，忠心

参考例句：

• She told him the truth from a sense of loyalty.她告诉他真相是出于忠诚。
• His loyalty to his friends was never in doubt.他对朋友的一片忠心从来没受到怀疑。