用包容换取他人的爱

 Two women were chatting in a room.

One asked, "How is everything going with your son?"

"Oh, don’t even mention it, what a huge misfortune¹!!" The woman sighed:

"He is poor enough, and marry an extraordinary lazy daughter-in-law. She doesn’t cook, not clean the room, and not look after the children except sleep all the time. It was my son who brings breakfast to her bed.

"How about your daughter?"

"She might be lucky." Woman smiled,

"She married a good husband who doesn’t allow her to do the housework, and handle everything all alone. The housework include cooking, washing, cleaning and looking after the children. What’s more, he brought the breakfast to my daughter everyday.

● Consider 

→ Same situation, but when we look at from my perspective, it will have a different mentality².

 

→ Stand to look at other people's position, or at each other's point of view to think about a lot of things not the case,

 

→ You can have a greater tolerance³, will have more love.

 

→ Accommodate⁴ only have love, only love, do not accommodate, and all are in vain. 

 

有二个妇人在聊天，

 

其中一个问道「你儿子还好吧?」

 

「别提了，真是不幸哦!!」这个妇人叹息道：

 

「他实在够可怜，娶个媳妇懒的要命，不烧饭、不扫地、不洗衣服、不带孩子，整天就是睡觉，我儿子还要端早餐到她的床上呢!!」 

 

「那女儿呢?」

 

「那她可就好命了。」妇人满脸笑容

 

「他嫁了一个不错的丈夫，不让他做家事，全部都由先生一手包办，煮饭、洗衣、扫地、带孩子，而且每天早上还端早点到床上给她吃呢!」 

 

●试想 

→同样的状况，但是当我们从我的角度去看时，就会产生不同的心态。

 

→站在别人的立场看一看，或在对方的角度想一想，很多事就不一样了，

 

→你可以有更大的包容，也会有更多的爱。

 

→有包容才有爱，只有爱不懂包容，一切皆枉然。

1 misfortune   

n.不幸，厄运，逆境，不幸事故，灾难

参考例句：

• It is said to be an omen of misfortune.那被认为是一种不幸的先兆。
• She had the misfortune to break her leg.她不幸摔断了腿。

2 mentality   

n.心理，思想，脑力

参考例句：

• He has many years'experience of the criminal mentality.他研究犯罪心理有多年经验。
• Running a business requires a very different mentality from being a salaried employee.经营企业所要求具备的心态和上班族的心态截然不同。

3 tolerance   

n.宽容；容忍，忍受；耐药力；公差

参考例句：

• Tolerance is one of his strengths.宽容是他的一个优点。
• Human beings have limited tolerance of noise.人类对噪音的忍耐力有限。

4 accommodate   

vt.容纳，向...提供住处，使适应，顺应

参考例句：

• You should soon accommodate yourself to the new circumstance.你应尽快适应新环境。
• Are there enough shelves to accommodate all our books?有足够的书架容纳我们所有的书吗？