模范女友-她会倾听你的困难(2)

 　　A great girlfriend

　　模范女友

　　She Listens To Your Problems

　　她会倾听你的困难

　　Make sure your girlfriend iscompassionate enough to hear your problems and, even if she can’t always offerconcrete solutions, she should at least be providing a shoulder to cry on.

　　确保你的女朋友足够有同情心能倾听你的困难，即使她不总能为你提供切实的解决方法，她至少应该为你提供一个依靠的肩膀。

　　She Lets You Be Vulnerable

　　她让你变得脆弱

　　Don’t be scared to cry or be soft andunguarded in front of her, and if you feel like you can’t or she'd mock you forit, she’s not the one for you.

　　不要害怕在她面前掉眼泪，或者表现出软弱或毫无戒备的样子。如果你感觉自己做不到或者她会因此嘲笑你，那她就不适合你。

　　She’s Got Your Back

　　她尊重你

　　You should be with someone who alwaysspeaks about you with respect. She’s allowed to criticize you, but pointlessname-calling and attempts to shred¹ your self-esteem shouldn’t ever betolerated.

　　你的恋人在谈到你时应该尊重你。她可以批评你，但毫无意义的谩骂、试图毁掉你自尊的行为就令人无法容忍。

1 shred   

v.撕成碎片，变成碎片；n.碎布条，细片，些少

参考例句：

• There is not a shred of truth in what he says.他说的全是骗人的鬼话。
• The food processor can shred all kinds of vegetables.这架食品加工机可将各种蔬菜切丝切条。