一生必知英语话题背诵 34为何闪婚

It takes us only seconds to make a cup of coffee, minutes to write and send an e-mail, just hours to cross a continent by air. Then why can't we decide to marry each other after we knew each other for 7 hours?

几秒钟冲一杯咖啡，几分钟写一封邮件，几小时甚至可以完成洲际飞行。那么，相识7小时后就决定结婚，又有什么不可以的呢?

People who choose a "flash marriage" believe there is no time for marathon dating when there are so many other things to be done. In addition, the issue of love is not an affair that can benguaranteed (保证，承诺) forever. Even after dating for five or eight years, nobody is confident that the love will be everlasting¹. If they spend a long time testing the affection², it's just to put obstacles³ on their own way. If the affection can't go on forever, both sides will be deeply hurt and no one can relive their past youth.

选择"闪婚"的人认为，这个时代有太多的事情要他们去关注和投入，已经没有时间去跑恋爱"马拉松"了，况且，现在的感情也没有一劳永逸的，不是谈了五年八年就能保证白头到老的。如果再花费大量的时间和精力去反复验证爱情，就是人为地给自己设置障碍。一旦爱情走不下去了，双方受伤不说，谁能为消逝的青春"买单"呢?

Therefore, if you fall in love with someone, marry him/her. Other things can be thought about later.No matter whether it is for dating or marriage, love is the most important thing.

所以，遇到有感觉的，那就赶快结婚吧，至于其他的事情，慢慢再说。恋爱也好，结婚也好，最重要的还是爱情。

1 everlasting   

adj.永恒的，持久的，无止境的

参考例句：

• These tyres are advertised as being everlasting.广告上说轮胎持久耐用。
• He believes in everlasting life after death.他相信死后有不朽的生命。

2 affection   

n.喜爱；爱慕，感情；倾向，意向

参考例句：

• The handsome young man excited affection in a girl.那位英俊的年轻男子引起了一个女孩的爱慕之情。
• He has a deep affection for his old friend.他对老朋友感情很深。

3 obstacles   

n. 干扰；障碍

参考例句：

• I think most of these obstacles can be surmounted. 我认为这些障碍大多数都是可以克服的。
• There's no formidable obstacles in the world. 世上没有无法逾越的障碍。