向前一步:第225期 为平等而不懈努力(4)
Women who want to take two weeks off ...or two days ...or two years ...or twenty years deserve everyone's full support. 不管产假要休两周、两天还是两年，女性都应得到所有人的支持。 As Marissa's experience demonstrates, wome
向前一步:第226期 为平等而不懈努力(5)
In a published response, she described reading the blog post and how her immediate thought washow sad. 她公开回应说，自己读到这篇文章的第一反应是：这太悲哀了。 How sad that as an industry and a society we haven't advanced
向前一步:第227期 为平等而不懈努力(6)
Every social movement struggles with dissension within its ranks, 每一次的社会运动都必然与阶层内部的分歧进行斗争， in part because advocates are passionate and unlikely to agree on every position and solution. 部分原因是由
向前一步:第228期 为平等而不懈努力(7)
In the days of tokenism, women looked around the room and instead of bonding against an unfair system, they often viewed one another as competition. 那个年代很流行在性别比例上做表面文章，当时的女性会观察四周，而不是联合
向前一步:第229期 为平等而不懈努力(8)
One study found that female professors believed that male Ph.D. students were more committed to their careers than female Ph.D. students, 一项研究发现，女教授们都相信男博士生比女博士生更专注于自己的事业， even though
向前一步:第230期 为平等而不懈努力(9)
Almost all of the women I have encountered professionally have gone out of their way to be helpful. 我遇到的所有专业女性都曾以自己的方式帮助过其他女性同事。 When I was a lowly summer intern at McKinsey, I met Diana Farrell
向前一步:第231期 为平等而不懈努力(10)
We imagine women will act communally and maybe we do so out of our own bias. 我们会预设女性具有公共化行为的倾向，这也许是出于我们自己的偏见。 Once in my career, I felt that a senior woman treated me poorly. 在我的职业
向前一步:第232期 为平等而不懈努力(11)
In 2012, Kunal Modi, a student at Harvard's Kennedy School, wrote an article imploring men to Man Up on Family and Workplace Issues. 2012年，哈佛肯尼迪学院的学生库纳尔莫迪写了一篇文章，真诚地呼吁男性在家庭和事业问题
向前一步:第233期 为平等而不懈努力(12)
As Professor Williams explains, These mommy wars are so bitter because both groups' identities are at stake because of another clash of social ideals: 威廉教授解释道：这些母亲大战相当激烈，这两个群体的身份由于对社会理想
向前一步:第234期 为平等而不懈努力(13)
And yet, in a deep and profound way, we are failing. 然而，我们正在隐隐地滑向失败， Because feminism wasn't supposed to make us feel guilty, 因为女权主义运动的目的并不是让我们感到自责， or prod us into constant co
向前一步:第235期 为平等而不懈努力(14)
She understood that the compensation for her efforts was making a difference in the lives of persecuted people halfway across the world, 她明白自己的努力多少都能帮助到世界各地那些受到迫害的人， but many people in her own n
向前一步:第236期 为平等而不懈努力(15)
Unfortunately, she told me that she encountered resentment from another source the navy wives. 遗憾的是，她告诉我，对她的怨恨竟然来自那些军嫂们。 At an onshore welcome dinner, the wives of her colleagues pounced and accused h
向前一步:第237期 为平等而不懈努力(16)
The goal is to work toward a world where those social norms no longer exist. 我们要为摒弃这些老观念，为创造一个新世界而努力。 If more children see fathers at school pickups and mothers who are busy at jobs, both girls and boys
向前一步:第238期 为平等而不懈努力(17)
At one point, I was asked to become the administrator for the entire school, my mother told me. 有一次，学校邀请我进入管理层，我母亲告诉我， I said no, preferring to stay in the classroom and work with my students. I was exactly
向前一步:第239期 为平等而不懈努力(18)
It's up to us to end the self-fulfilling belief that women can't do this, women can't do that. 女人不能做这事，女人不能做那事是否需要抛弃这种一旦相信就很可能成真的观念，取决我们自己。 Throwing up our hands
