向前一步:第15期 职业女性的内在障碍(4)
Almost all of my male classmates work in professional settings. 我的那些男同学都在职场上大显身手， Some of my female classmates work full-time or part-time outside the home, 女同学里有全职工作的、也有兼职工作的， a
向前一步:第16期 职业女性的内在障碍(5)
The workplace did not evolve to give us the flexibility we needed to fulfill our responsibilities at home. 此外，工作条件也没有改善到可以为我们提供兼顾家庭所必需的弹性时间。 We anticipated none of this. We were caught
向前一步:第17期 职业女性的内在障碍(6)
The pipeline that supplies the educated workforce is chock-full of women at the entry level, 所以，在社会教育的劳动者中，处级岗位上挤满了女性。 but by the time that same pipeline is filling leadership positions, it is overwhe
向前一步:第20期 职业女性的内在障碍(9)
Instead, I moved to Washington, D C., which was full of eligible men. 于是我转而去了华盛顿特区，那里尽是适合结婚的男人。 It worked. My first year out of college, I met a man who was not just eligible, but also wonderful, so I
向前一步:第21期 职业女性的内在障碍(10)
My girlfriends, however, expressed shock and horror that I would leave my boyfriend at the time to live abroad for a year. 但听说我要离开当时的男友到国外居住一年，我的女伴们都一脸的震惊和恐惧， My relatives asked wh
向前一步:第22期 职业女性的内在障碍(11)
Still, in today's world, where we no longer have to hunt in the wild for our food, 然而，在今天的世界中，人类不再像古代那样必须在野外觅食打猎， our desire for leadership is largely a culturally created and reinforced tra
向前一步:第23期 职业女性的内在障碍(12)
When a girl tries to lead, she is often labeled bossy. 当一个女孩尝试领导者角色时，她常被贴上爱使唤人的标签。 Boys are seldom called bossy because a boy taking the role of a boss does not surprise or offend. 男孩则很少被
向前一步:第24期 职业女性的内在障碍(13)
Initially, as a one-year-old and a three-year-old, we were worthless and weak. Disorganized, lazy. 最初呢，我们俩一个1岁，一个3岁，没什么用，不但软弱，而且行为随便、懒惰。 We would just as soon spit up on ourselves
向前一步:第25期 职业女性的内在障碍(14)
I was recently reminded that these patterns persist even when we are all grown up. 近来有人提醒我，这些模式即使当我们都长大成人了也会持续下去。 Not long ago, at a small dinner with other business executives, the guest of
向前一步:第26期 职业女性的内在障碍(15)
My favorite song, William's Doll, is about a five-year-old boy who begs his reluctant father to buy him a traditional girl's toy. 我最喜欢其中的一首歌《威廉想要个娃娃》，讲的是一个5岁的男孩恳求父亲给他买一个女孩玩
向前一步:第27期 职业女性的内在障碍(16)
Compounding the problem is a social-psychological phenomenon called stereotype threat. 把问题往复杂了说，这就是成见威胁。 Social scientists have observed that when members of a group are made aware of a negative stereotype, 社会科学
向前一步:第28期 职业女性的内在障碍(17)
A study found that of Millennial men and women who work in an organization with a woman in a senior role, 研究发现，在有一位女性高管的组织中，那些80后、90后的女性中， only about 20 percent want to emulate her career. 只有
向前一步:第29期 职业女性的内在障碍(18)
For many men, the fundamental assumption is that they can have both a successful professional life and a fulfilling personal life. 对男人来说，有一个重要的基本假设是，他们既可以拥有成功的职业生涯，也可以拥有满意的
